A Love Thought
Thursday, November 23rd, 2006The guy who loves his mom will be a good boyfriend. Why? Because if he has high respect for his mother, he will have high respect for women. (pero ha, wag naman mama’s boy!)
Don’t give everything away. Leave some things a mystery. Guys love conquest. If you already give your all, wala ng somethings to look forward to sa relarionship nyo. And the guy will become kampante. Assure him of your love and faithfulness, but warn him too: "umayos ka diyan! You can lose me anytime…"
BIG PAGKAKAIBA: What a gri needs most is love. What a guy needs most is respect. The most important thing for a girl is her heart. For a guy is its his ego.
Give your man his own time and space. Lt him have his time for his friends, sports, family, self and God. The relationship wil grow old quickly if lagi kayong magkasama. Give him time to miss you and you’ll see how he will love you more. If the guy naman is obsessed and just want to be with you all the time , tell him you cant respect a "puppy" for long.
Do things differently anytime.
Para kahit matagal na kayo there is always something fresh and new. Variety is the spice of life. Exciting baga? Discover something yo both like to do and enjoy it twogether. Doon naman sa mga bagay na magkaiba ang hilig nyo, copmliment each other by learnign about it kahit konti. If you love someone,yung effort nyo to try will go a loooong way to understanding him later pag may disagreement kayo. Be his/her bestfriend, kabarkada, katropa, and everthing…
Pray with holding hands. Sounds corny noh? Maybe, but its very powerful. Pag may takot sa Diyos ang boyfriend mo, kampante ka na di ka nya lolokohin, because he knows God sees everyhthing he does in secret. Ikaw na ang magkusa, that beforeyou part after date, with hold hands and eyes closed, pray to God to bless you two. Belive me its effective, kailanman, di korny ang magdasal.
Never think "mababago ko sya pag kami na…" Pnly God can change a person, and only it that person wants to. Even God cannot steer parked cars.
Believe in "Magic". Kahit di minsan practical o walang logical na dahilan, o matrabaho, o sounds crazy sa iba, do sweet little things for the one you love kahit magmukha ka ng timang. The memories will be fun to recall later in life. The corniest song o gift o letter (aminin mo) ang laging kabog!
True love brings out the best in each other. Find something good in your boyfriend and nurture it, encourage it and syempre, ENJOY it.
It’s healthy to fight.
Doon nyo lang maaayos ang mga differences nyo at natetest ang tatag ng relationship.
Doon mo rin sya makikilala ng mabuti. Its called test of fire. Di mahalaga how dalas you fight. What matters is how often you make bati. Mas nakakatakot yung relasyong sobrang perfect at laging masaya. One big fight and that’s it! And diba mas kilig yung malambing na…"uy, bati na tayo…"…"ikaw kasi e"…"sorry na" But don’t overdo it.
Forgive. Give him/her another chance. If you love your partner your willing to forgive. Si Gos nga diba nagpapatawad ikaw pa na tao lang (hhhmmmm). Pero kung paulit ulit na lang..paulit ulit na lang..paulit ulit na lang..magiisip isip ka na.. At isa pa, ikaw ba hindi nagkakamali din. What if ikaw ang nagkamali at you didn’t mean it naman, and then you asked forgiveness tapos hindi ka pinatawad. Ano kaya ang mararamdaman mo. Unfair ba? Kung nagkamali din ang partner mo, don’t just put all the blame to him/her.
Ask mo din, baka meron kang nagawang hindi nya nagugustuhan o nagustuhan. Baka naman fault mo din naman. Hindi lang nya magawang sabihin sayo kaya dinadaan nya sa pahiwatig. Pinaparamdam sayo. At guys/gals, kung me sama naman kayo ng loob sa partner nyo tell him/her, wag nyo ng palalain ang pangyayari.
Daraan sa iba’t-ibang stages ang love especially pag matagal na kayo. Grow with it. Don’t expect him to be like nung una. ‘Coz like a student, di na ituturo sa grade 6 yung lessons na pang-grade 2. Change WILL happen… you both will change and your love WILL change too. It’s up to you na lang if the change will be for the better or for the worse. Life is about growth. Grow with it.
When break up comes and it’s time to say goodbye, don’t doubt the love just because it didn’t last. May mga bagay sa buhay na di man nagtatagal, it doesn’t mean di na ito totoo. Some good things are just never meant to last forever.. Okay lang yon. Bless the parting and move on. (Mastery)
Expect tears, sorrow, sleepless nights and pain. Ika nga "it’s when you hurt the worse that you love the MOST." Kung di ka willing masaktan, wag ka na lang magmahal. (uh! Sapul!)
Life is a balance. And love is both holding on and letting go. Know when to fight for your man and when to let him go. God will guide you kung anong dapat gawin sa kung anong sitwasyon. So dapat mataas ang signal ng langit sa cellfone ng puso mo to know His wisdom.
Letting go is not showing how weak you are, its about showing how strong to you are to let go of something that you couldn’t have (naks! nabasa ko sa text)
DATE IDEAS: A walk in the park, along the bay area watching the sunset, biking sa big, open spaces, stargaze at night sa ibabaw ng bubong, jog @ 5 am and wait for the sunrise, singing with a guitar (or a walkman) under a tree’s shade sharing hopia and siomai (sarap!). Wag lagi sa mall. Involve nature. The best things in life pa rin ay free. Di kailangan gumasta ng malaki para sumaya o maging romantic. Be creative..
Honesty is the best policy(I truly agree)… ika nga ni Jimmy Santos. Pero laging nasa timing at paraan ng pagsasabi ang technique. Pag malumanay mong sasabihin sakin na ipagpapalit mo na ako sa iba o papatayin mo na ko sa sobrang gigil, Gosh! Mato-touch pa ko! May lambing eh! If you want to be trusted, show that you can be trusted…be honest!!! Naman!!
Don’t NAG! Sabi ng don’t nag eh! Sabi ko don’t nag, don’t nag, don’t naaaaaaggg!!! ano ba??!!!! wag kang pasaway ha!! Yung effort, sa kahit anong gawain o effort mo ay laging 2 billion ganda/pogi points yan. Do little surprises every now and then.
PARA SO HAPPY TWO-GETHER!!!
